|
|
Love Sex Dating and Relationship Articles!
Greetings and Congrats! You have managed to find the only completely spam and banner free dating site network on the entire World Wide Web! Besides our own 100% free of charge personal ads, we also provide direct access to over 30 more dating sites offering totally free personals! We also feature hundreds of dating tips and advice articles, jokes and humor pages, polls and opinion survey's, love poems and tons of romance related columns!
We Review all the leading dating services offering free basic memberships, over 100 in all! If we can't guide your path to online love and romance, no site can!
 |
Cupid.com
- full cupid.com review
Find photos of thousands of new singles every day who've heard the massive radio campaign "Don't be stupid. Go to Cupid!" on this fast growing state of the art dating site. |
Would you know it if your mate was leading a double life?
Would the signs be obvious to you or to your family and friends?
Most of the time we know when the top isn't spinning right in our relationships,
but we don't want to know so we conveniently "overlook" the obvious when it
comes to our men. Other times we're in the dark about their secretive tricks
until something definitive happens and the light switch is thrown. Then suddenly
everything is bathed in a painfully bright light.
Well, never fear...reinforcements have arrived!
Now, make sure you read with both eyes and listen with both ears -- BUT be sure
you're not looking for the fire unless you already smell the smoke...
After speaking at length with several private investigators and divorce
attorneys, I'm going to share the top 7 "smoke signals" your husband or live-in
boyfriend could not only have another woman out there, but perhaps a whole other
family outside of his home with you:
Signal #1. He has reason(s) to travel consistently or frequently.
If your man has a job or hobby that requires consistent and/or frequent
travel--look out. According to experienced private investigators, this is the
NUMBER ONE cover for a second, or even a third, hidden family life.
Signal #2. YOU are in the dark about his TRUE financial income and/or holdings.
Does he have complete autonomy of the household finances? Whether he does or
not, how do you know he doesn't have bank accounts you may not know about? Are
you sure he doesn't have trust funds, mutual funds, IRA's, stocks and bonds, or
even annuities hidden from you? How about credit cards? A credit report may be a
good place to check on those.
Moreover, what about life insurance policies and wills? Do you have access to a
copy of his will? Are you sure you know who's listed as his primary and
contingent beneficiaries? Better find out. According to top divorce attorneys,
many women are CLUELESS in these areas until either someone dies or it's all
aired for a judge to hear in court.
What's more, are you sure you know his exact income? And could he possibly
receive hefty stipends or bonuses you aren't clued in on? Better get busy
finding that out too.
Signal #3. He has reason to be in regular contact with an ex-wife or girlfriend
but (by either choice or circumstance) you're excluded from most of his
interactions with this person.
This is a big one. If he has children, property, business, etc. from a prior
marriage or relationship, this constitutes reason to be in contact with an
ex-whatever. Beware the "old and familiar" syndrome. Sometimes you'd rather not
be involved when he's dealing with his ex, but in most regards, that makes it
quite easy for him to re-ignite a whole other life with that person.
Take note: this sign could also be present with his or YOUR own best friend,
YOUR own sister, YOUR own mother, YOUR own daughter, etc. You'd be surprised
what private investigators see in their line of work! Don't be a fool.
Signal #4. You have little or no access to his pager, cell phone, or e-mail.
Another big one, but self-explanatory. Pretty easy to have another woman, other
children or in-laws contacting him if he makes sure he's not in danger of you
answering the phone, checking on the pager, or reading his e-mail. Private
investigators agree -- you shouldn't have to demand access to these things, but
they shouldn't be inaccessible to you either...get it?
Signal #5. He regularly attends the usual "couple's" events...but somehow you
don't.
If you find that more often than not, he winds up having cause to go solo to
weddings, holiday events or social functions, I'd start scratching what might
appear to be the surface and get down to the nitty-gritty of exactly why that
may be happening. It could be that it wasn't an event your side of his life
could "safely" attend. Perhaps these are the times that his "other family" is on
his arm...
Signal #6. He's frequently not in the mood for sex or there's been some change
in sexual appetite or behavior.
Have whips and chains entered the picture from out of left field? Has the "sex
talk" suddenly become chock-full of color after 10 or more years of black and
white? This could mean sex has gotten more inventive elsewhere and he's ready
to spice it up with you too...
On the other hand if his appetite for sex has decreased or come to a noticeable
halt, chances are he's getting his fill of sex in his other "home" and just
plain has nothing left by the time he comes home to you.
Signal #7. Last, but not least, if he makes frequent gazes to the left ---
something's not right.
A psychological indicator that we're using the creative side of our brain is a
look up into the air and to the left. If this happens often while he's talking
to you, the best way to tell if he's lying is if his lips are moving.
If you're already sniffing smoke in your relationship, you may want to go ahead
and check for fires. If you find out he has another "life", be sure you don't
fan the flames by being passive.
Some advice? Take control --- cut your losses and evacuate the building.
| Friendfinder.com
full friendfinder review
Friendfinders has no trial memberships or hidden costs. Your membership
is free for life. The largest online dating site only takes a couple minutes to join! |
No Porn or Nudity will be found on this site. If you seek adult dating sites, swingers or other 18 and over matchmaking connections, try adult-dating-sites.com.
|
| |
|
